"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Putting women on an emotional roller coaster ride
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
DreamyChick
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
DreamyChick
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I am not falling for your attempt to create more drama on this thread. I have enough of it in the real world thanks.
Kaine
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Sensuality and Romance is also drama
Playfulness causes drama
Rockclimbing and boxing is dramatic
Actually by definition anything that causes a moving change in emotion can be defined as drama
Fact of the matter woman are emotional creatures and to give them the feelings they desire is to be a true Don Juan/Cassanova
I also liked Nishbuks post about the world been "a world of relatives". That is why push and pull is so effective in keeping a womans interest (whether you did it intentionally or not), "the negative makes the positive even better".
She appreciates you more if she is allowed to miss you, she appreciates your attention and affection more if you show your independence and cool.
Kaine
DJ_in_making
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I was enjoying this until I heard that..... I'm not too crazy about women posting on sosuave myself, but I don't think anyone should have to go through this kind of harrassment at all.
Please don't treat me like a victim. I appreciate the sentiment and all...but it's not necessary. When I started feeling ill I got up and walked away from it. I can handle myself just fine. The only reason I argued this until I felt sick was because I'm right and this is such an important issue. If it were something more trivial I wouldn't have even bothered.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Oh please...harassment??????? Nobody forces her to come to this board and participate. You're falling for her stupid ploys.
She's basically out of her mind. She says I'll harass her on another thread? When have I ever harassed her? She keeps coming back on here and responding. If she's so damn harassed, why does she come back for more.
I feel like I'm harassed too. I'm just not going to respond any more to this idiot, or her male dominions.
You're putting words in my mouth. I never used the word "harass". I said you'd start crap elsewhere, which you most likely will.
You haven't been "harassed"...you were the one who started throwing around insults. You have been an "a s s", though.
DreamyChick
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Looks like you and I have something in common then doesn't it.Originally posted by Wyldfire
No, you aren't here for drama...you're here for attention.
DreamyChick
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Why are you even here? This forum is for DJ's and aspiring DJ's. i have no problem with you being here if you want to be constructive. But you seem to be initiating quite a bit of arguments that aren't condusive to a learning enviorment. please obey the TOS or I will have no options but to have your account terminated.
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penkitten
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some women create drama and emotional rollercoasters to keep men interested. dont you hate that ****?? you dont respect those women very much do you? dont see them as ladies?
me either.
Giovanni Casanova
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Thread closed.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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