"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Putting things into perspective... shows how lucky we are

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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T Money

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I'm sure a handful of those guys are innocent, just in the wrong place a the wrong time, but there's nothing "lucky" about me not being in jail.

I'm proud of who I am. And even if I were IN jail, I wouldn't be posting pics of myself trying to get a girl to write me. She's got millions of options:

"Hmm, should I go talk to this guy sitting at the bar? Or write that letter to the inmate who's getting parole'd in 2015?"

Do the math fellas.
 

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When I mean 'lucky' i mean that we HAVE the power to change our circumstances. (Girls wise)

What about those guys? They're basically f*cked.

"Hmm, should I go talk to this guy sitting at the bar? Or write that letter to the inmate who's getting parole'd in 2015?"
Whats sad is that their ONLY option.

If and when they leave all their youth will be gone.

Just think about that when your lonely, those guys have it a million times worse.

(yeah ignore the fact that they are prob murders :D , be more empathetic guys, they have to live sad lives)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by Sometimes
be more empathetic guys, they have to live sad lives
Empathy for a murderer who is paying the consequences for his actions?

Yes, he made a mistake when he chose to kill someone. It could have even been decades ago. He could feel complete remorse and be a different person. But he still made the choice to cross the line, knowing the risks of his actions, and he is paying the price.

The day I feel sorrow for a criminal getting what he deserves is the day I forfeit my own integrity. There is a reason why I am not in prison for murder... the same reason that they are: the moment that you violate someone else's rights (especially when it comes to taking their life), is the moment you renounce your own.
 
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