"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Putting my girlfriend/relationship on hold.

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Corndowg

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Ok here's the thing... I'm almost 21, my girlfriend is almost 18. She's in love with me and I think i may love her but i'm very iffy about it. What the **** does she know about love anyway (let alone me.) I'm sure it's a long time infatuation. Now as a Don Juan I know i could get these other girls easily and to be honest I want to pursue it and at least **** them and try it out cause I KNOW I CAN.

This one girl I used to make out with and do stuff with less than a year ago finally got a car and more freedom recently. In the past **** held us back and now it doesn't. She wants to basically come over and get down. I want to do her. What do i do about "my girl"? I'm worried about losing her if i tell her that i want to put stuff on hold cause she'll know it's to bang other chicks. She's not stupid. Should I just lie to her, say I'm working and spend the day with this other girl or what? I know this girl would just be an easy **** and trust me, it would be worth it for me.

Anyone have experience with this type of situation? I was thinking of just lieing to my girl but you know, morals and karma and ****. Help!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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personally speaking, you cant have both. choose.

if you choose to lie to your gf and screw the other chick, things will get ugly with your gf. and she'll end up dumping you anyways. which you dont want her to do lest you look like a fvcking retard

see which is more impt to you, a fling... or your LTR.

you cant have the best of both worlds buddy. its reality.
 
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My advice?

Break it off with your gf, and sleep with other girls. You're 21, she's 18, that relationship is NOT gonna last. Leave on good terms, and enjoy your 20s man, you only get them once. Don't tie yourself down yet, cause one day you're gonna wake up, be 40, have a weight gaining wife and 5 crying brats, and you're gonna miss the freedom you have now.
 
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Originally posted by Corndowg
... I think i may love her but i'm very iffy about it.
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This says it all.

Your heart isn't in it. Walk away and bang other chicks. Being a DJ doesn't mean treating a girl like crap. If you can get rid of her without burning your bridges, then all kudos to you,

but either way... exotic pu$$y beckons!!!
 
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