Phantasmal
Senior Don Juan
Nine Inch Nails/Johnny Cash - Hurt
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Put your favorite feel good song here
- Thread starter Microphone Fiend
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
doctoroxygen
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 23, 2002
- Messages
- 581
- Reaction score
- 4
Mark Morrison - Return of the Mack
Chaos-Knight
Don Juan
Fear Factory - Invisible Wounds (resident evil soundtrack)
Fear Factory - zero signal
my way or the highway(not sure who sings it~)maybe kid rock?
Fear Factory - Cars
Fear Factory - zero signal
my way or the highway(not sure who sings it~)maybe kid rock?
Fear Factory - Cars
Silquee Smoove
Master Don Juan
Actually, I've bolded the title for ya' C. Knight and it's done by rap-rock cover-artists supreme Limp Bizkit.
Luce - Good Day
Tom Cochrane - Life is a Highway
Bad Ronald - 1st Time (Real Cancun intro song)
Neil Young - Keep on Rockin In the Free World
Matt Good - Load Me Up
David Bowie - Heroes
Manfred Man - Blinded By The Light
Dr. Dre - Still DRE
Weezer - Island in the Sun
Isley Bros. - Summer Breeze
U2 - Beautiful Day
Jay Z - I'm a Hustler
Tom Cochrane - Life is a Highway
Bad Ronald - 1st Time (Real Cancun intro song)
Neil Young - Keep on Rockin In the Free World
Matt Good - Load Me Up
David Bowie - Heroes
Manfred Man - Blinded By The Light
Dr. Dre - Still DRE
Weezer - Island in the Sun
Isley Bros. - Summer Breeze
U2 - Beautiful Day
Jay Z - I'm a Hustler
Me too ^
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Green Day - Turning Point
Paul Oakenfold - This Is Trance
Any Dragonforce song, lol
Scorpions - Rock you like a hurricane
Suidakra - Darkane Times
Metallica - Hit The Lights
Iron Maiden - Run To the Hills
Iron Maiden - No More Lies
MANY more
Paul Oakenfold - This Is Trance
Any Dragonforce song, lol
Scorpions - Rock you like a hurricane
Suidakra - Darkane Times
Metallica - Hit The Lights
Iron Maiden - Run To the Hills
Iron Maiden - No More Lies
MANY more
Spike_the_Dragon
Senior Don Juan
I hate Limp Bizkit. They suck. Limp Bizkit might possibly be the very worst band of all time... next to Insane Clown Posse, anyways.
ShizamDaMan
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 26, 2003
- Messages
- 1,113
- Reaction score
- 3
The Von Bondies - Been Swank
The Strokes - Reptilia
The Strokes - New York City Cops
My Chemical Romance - The Jetset Life is Gonna Kill You
NYC Cops is one of my favorite songs to rock while I'm playing guitar, I absolutely love the solo to it.
The Strokes - Reptilia
The Strokes - New York City Cops
My Chemical Romance - The Jetset Life is Gonna Kill You
NYC Cops is one of my favorite songs to rock while I'm playing guitar, I absolutely love the solo to it.
Spike_the_Dragon
Senior Don Juan
Pixies - "Where's my Mind" is also a great song.
Rage Against the Machine -- "Renegades of Funk" (I can't sit still when I hear that song).
Deltones -- "Miserlou"
Rage Against the Machine -- "Renegades of Funk" (I can't sit still when I hear that song).
Deltones -- "Miserlou"
Silquee Smoove
Master Don Juan
I know somebody in Source magazine compared I.C.P. to two janitors who were "posing" as rappers.
I don't like Limp Bizkit either I simply wanted to let that guy know it wasn't Kid Rock.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
"Free Bird", "Free Fallin'", and "We Will Rock You/We are the Champions"
Abbott
Master Don Juan
Supertramp - Goodbye Stranger
ZZ Top - Sharp Dressed Man
ZZ Top - Sharp Dressed Man