"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"Put yah number on this paper because...
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Not only is that statement AFC, it sounds illiterate.
So, in other words you'd have to have a 100% chance of not getting a rejection for that to work first.
FlyGuy
Master Don Juan
anyways its funny to see little white kids influenced by rap and then they think it relates to real life.
"Only non-afc if you're a hip hop star?"
Listen flipdog, let me tell you something about Jayz. He never used that line in his life on a real woman. He never would and if he did he is as dumb as you for posting this. He gets women because 1) hes famous 2) he has money not because he comes up with lines that rhyme and make no sense.
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
The men that are on tour get SO many women they have armed security to keep them away. They don't need to go around asking for numbers.
This is an AFC pick up line for ANY guy. The real pimps don't need it and it makes everyone else look like a wannabe.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
Here's a good one:
me: Hi, I'm a chick magnet.
her: whatever loser
me: hmm, you must not be a chick. cya
NO!! I don't like pickup lines.
now i like jay-z quite a bit... from what i heard from his lyrics, he was very bad with chicks, a total AFC (listen to hey papi).. then finally figured out wtf was up and got control of his life..and his girls... plus being one of the biggest/best rappers helps
but boy, is he butt ugly eh