Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

PUT THAT SELF HELP BOOK DOWN.

xavier_2000

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Read the title and do it lmao.

That is game summarized.

You are doubting yourself.

You have all those qualities you seek within you.

Look into a freaking mirror.

Charisma, Charm, Nonchalance, Confidence...

Just stop doubting yourself.

Self-Help books are like training wheels.

They help you get some awareness on growth mindset.

But that's it.

You gotta get out there and play the game of life.

Only through playing and action will you get what you seek.

Stop watching these stupid circle jerk manosphere dudes telling ya how you should behave and be like. F that. You create your own rules.

Stop reading these boring mental masturbation philosophy, just create your own way of life dammit.

Like seriously. If you're fat, just go work on that and become jacked lol.

I'm not saying sit around and pretend you're a hot "high value man".

Just go out there and fall in love with the process of growth and becoming.

It's like a drug that gets better and better with zero downsides.

"it is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable." - Some Chad.

Stay Pimpin.
 

xavier_2000

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Go through life with the understanding that you already achieved your goals.

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xavier_2000

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...... but there are some guys that do need training wheels for a while.
yeah but there comes a point where you just need to go out there lol the battle is the fun part

I know guys who are always "healing" like in a perpetual cycle, going to meditation retreats, ayahuasca ceremonies and ****

They think they need to work hard for happiness bro

It's the saddest illusion.

And trapped under not loving themselves so they think they have to fundamentally change everything about themselves and live life according to someone's rules because they feel they are not worthy.

Because they feel they are not worthy, they must replace themselves with this person who is "more deserving"

When I was younger I tried to fit the "stoic, quiet alpha male" type because thats who I thought I needed to be, It was freaking miserable. No fun. Everything was boring and difficult. I wasn't getting results.

If I listened to society instead of myself I would never ever be as happy as today.

Perfect is boring as hell.

So many stories of people who lived perfectly to that script and ended up logging off or having partners cheat on em with losers, etc.
 
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xavier_2000

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Self Help, Dating and Wellness industry feeds upon doubt and lack of self-love lol.

Anyways thats for another day.
 

Plinco

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Materiel is either good or it isn't. Most self help is bs. Good self help guides you into self-clarification, like learning how to communicate and think properly.
Self Help, Dating and Wellness industry feeds upon doubt and lack of self-love lol.

Anyways thats for another day.
But you are correct, even good self-help cannot give you the best you.
 

Michael Chief

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There is no book that can beat good old in field experience.

No problem reading books or studying any pickup material, but dudes need to spend more time in field than they spend reading about it. A lot more.
 
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