"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Pushing girls away who friendzone you?

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ediceneet12

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So I recently gave up on a chick I was pursuing over the summer (for a few reasons that don't really matter). Anyways I know I made a decent impact on the girl because the 4 times I took her out over the summer she was extremely touchy feely/giggly and I showed her a great time/had fun when we were out(I also never made a move on her besides C+F and lots of kino).

I recently stopped talking to her and stopped texting her to get her out of my head so i can get my mind on other chicks and pursue them instead, and low and behold she's been coming back to me. For instance she's been starting text conversations with me with stupid questions I know she knows the answer to like "what was the name of that restaurant we went to?" just to try and talk to me. Or more recently when she sees me in the hall she give me hugs.

The reason I'm pretty sure she friend zoned me was because I didn't make a move on her when i could've and also because she told my friend that "I don't see him that way, but maybe I would if i got to know him more like go out more and stuff" and she was also bothered and complained to my friend because I would never text her or talk to her except to set up 1 on 1 time with her.

So DJ's what do you think? you think she just misses having me around or do you think she might be interested? My gut is telling me to give it one more chance but i'm not too sure.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think she digs you its just you are not Escalating. After you are both comfortable with kino, you can escalate to almost anything.

Judge by her actions not words. If thats really the reason why you're dropping this plate then that is your loss.

Next time you guys are out on a date try and go for a make out if you havent already kissed her.

If already made out, go for the panties etc.
 
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Frayzer said:
I think she digs you its just you are not Escalating. After you are both comfortable with kino, you can escalate to almost anything.

Judge by her actions not words. If thats really the reason why you're dropping this plate then that is your loss.

Next time you guys are out on a date try and go for a make out if you havent already kissed her.

If already made out, go for the panties etc.
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alright looks like i'll set up another date then
 
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