"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Push-Ups

jakethasnake

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Hey -


When I can't hit the gym, I do a quick 50 push-ups in my room with slow repititions.


I was just wondering - when you do a wide-grip push-up with good form, what percentage of your body weight are you hoisting up with your arms? Have there been scientific/bio-mechanical studies to measure this?


For example, how many pounds would a man be pushing if he weighed 165 pounds, and did a push-up with his 'stance' wide, so that the middle of each hand/palm was about 4-5 inches from his shoulderblades?


I'd like to know this because my max bench is probably a bit over 200 - for my push-ups to have any reall effect on me I need to at least be pushing 80-100% of my body weight (I'd increase the reps to offset the decrease in 'bench' poundage).
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jerry Maguire

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If you want to use more of your bodyweight move your arms down from in line with your shoulders to in line with your solar plexus.
 
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