Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
blinkwatt said:You can gain some strength and muscle but nowhere near as fast as you could with weights on dumbbells/cables/barbells but not machines(stay away from machines). Good Luck!
Yes you are correct. I noticed that I gained minimal size and strength when I used machines for 1/2 of my workouts. Ask anyone who is "big" they will let you know that free weights are much better in the long run once you get comfortable with lifting. Machines are good for burnouts though.mrRuckus said:There's nothing wrong with machines.
Increase reps/weights on anything and you will get stronger/grow.
You could just add weight by wearing a backpack filled with bags of sand. It's actually cheaper then a set of free weights or a gym pass.Skilla_Staz said:Pushups can only get you so far. In order to increase the weight on a pushup, you need to gain weight.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That is now weight training. Adding any foreign weight, is (at least in my book) considered weight training, no matter how minimal.Slevin said:You could just add weight by wearing a backpack filled with bags of sand. It's actually cheaper then a set of free weights or a gym pass.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.