"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Push them away- bring them back in

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A girl in one of my classes wants me. She texts me every day and I'll give you a sample of them:
"Do u like me?"
"Do u think im ugly, cute, or hot?"
"Ur f*cken sexy. I would be all over u"
"I dont care if u never like me. Ill always like u and not just cuz the way u look"
She is not my type and is far to sl*tty for me to ever consider hooking up with. So I either ignore her or give her one word answers. When she talks to me at school I just answer her questions or try to look for a way out of the convo. This is making her come at me harder and harder every day.

The point of the story is that I see know that girls want what they can't have. So when you are gaming a girl don't EVER let her think that she owns you in any way. Don't EVER let her take you for granted. I see 80% of the guys at my school acting like screaming afc's and it makes me hurl. Be unpredictable. And make her chase you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Ian Gots Game
A girl in one of my classes wants me. She texts me every day and I'll give you a sample of them:
"Do u like me?"
"Do u think im ugly, cute, or hot?"
"Ur f*cken sexy. I would be all over u"
"I dont care if u never like me. Ill always like u and not just cuz the way u look"
She is not my type and is far to sl*tty for me to ever consider hooking up with. So I either ignore her or give her one word answers. When she talks to me at school I just answer her questions or try to look for a way out of the convo. This is making her come at me harder and harder every day.

The point of the story is that I see know that girls want what they can't have. So when you are gaming a girl don't EVER let her think that she owns you in any way. Don't EVER let her take you for granted. I see 80% of the guys at my school acting like screaming afc's and it makes me hurl. Be unpredictable. And make her chase you.


IM so proud of u! not just becuase you got that chick chasin after you but u just discovered one of the most secret weapon of seduction. this weapon is so big, so secret, yet so simple. Its the art of "playin hard to get." Not only is it so simple, girls use this to their advantage all the time yet most guys feel to realize and hopelessly chase after that perticular girl. Now that ur figured it out. Congrats.
 

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im bumping this because EVERYONE should read it because its a great post on how Push-pull works, if you apply this to every girl you ever meet, you will literally have to beat women away with sticks...
 

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how can u play hard to get when the girl already thinks she has u in her hands?
 

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you honestly need to re-read that..he is in control of that situation...if he really wanted to he could fvck her...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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yea but i messed up! i started telling her a lot of times going out wit me and she said no, and i know she used to like me a lot before!!! expecially since i was the first guy she kissed. but i dont know how to go back! lol
 

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one word: NEXT!
dont linger on one girl..trust me....im sure half of the people on this forum have been down that road...
 

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umm yea ur right! i was actually tryin to hit on her friend lol but i dont know, i couldnt do it, that bogus i think lol
 
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See what this guy is doin is hes tellin the chick she was ****in sexy. Thereby showin alittle if not alot of interest but at the same time he acts like he got better things to do then waste time with her by givin her only 1 word anwers. Always say less than nesasary. Y does this work when it comes to girls? well it just do lol....Alot of sh*t are confusin nowa days like when u come up to a hot chick and act all unimpress then shes gonna be overflow with urge to chase after you and figure out what is goin on. But ant girls always confusin since the beginin of time?....Where're all in highshool and i think this is the moment the time, our time to seduce and get lay as much as possible boys. So enjoy, get drunk, and get laid.


Leave alittle legacy behind, 1 girl at a time.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MVP's post summed it up well...
"women always;always want what they cant have"
 
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