"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A girl in one of my classes wants me. She texts me every day and I'll give you a sample of them:
"Do u like me?"
"Do u think im ugly, cute, or hot?"
"Ur f*cken sexy. I would be all over u"
"I dont care if u never like me. Ill always like u and not just cuz the way u look"
She is not my type and is far to sl*tty for me to ever consider hooking up with. So I either ignore her or give her one word answers. When she talks to me at school I just answer her questions or try to look for a way out of the convo. This is making her come at me harder and harder every day.

The point of the story is that I see know that girls want what they can't have. So when you are gaming a girl don't EVER let her think that she owns you in any way. Don't EVER let her take you for granted. I see 80% of the guys at my school acting like screaming afc's and it makes me hurl. Be unpredictable. And make her chase you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Ian Gots Game
A girl in one of my classes wants me. She texts me every day and I'll give you a sample of them:
"Do u like me?"
"Do u think im ugly, cute, or hot?"
"Ur f*cken sexy. I would be all over u"
"I dont care if u never like me. Ill always like u and not just cuz the way u look"
She is not my type and is far to sl*tty for me to ever consider hooking up with. So I either ignore her or give her one word answers. When she talks to me at school I just answer her questions or try to look for a way out of the convo. This is making her come at me harder and harder every day.

The point of the story is that I see know that girls want what they can't have. So when you are gaming a girl don't EVER let her think that she owns you in any way. Don't EVER let her take you for granted. I see 80% of the guys at my school acting like screaming afc's and it makes me hurl. Be unpredictable. And make her chase you.


IM so proud of u! not just becuase you got that chick chasin after you but u just discovered one of the most secret weapon of seduction. this weapon is so big, so secret, yet so simple. Its the art of "playin hard to get." Not only is it so simple, girls use this to their advantage all the time yet most guys feel to realize and hopelessly chase after that perticular girl. Now that ur figured it out. Congrats.
 

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im bumping this because EVERYONE should read it because its a great post on how Push-pull works, if you apply this to every girl you ever meet, you will literally have to beat women away with sticks...
 

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how can u play hard to get when the girl already thinks she has u in her hands?
 

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you honestly need to re-read that..he is in control of that situation...if he really wanted to he could fvck her...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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yea but i messed up! i started telling her a lot of times going out wit me and she said no, and i know she used to like me a lot before!!! expecially since i was the first guy she kissed. but i dont know how to go back! lol
 

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one word: NEXT!
dont linger on one girl..trust me....im sure half of the people on this forum have been down that road...
 

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umm yea ur right! i was actually tryin to hit on her friend lol but i dont know, i couldnt do it, that bogus i think lol
 
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See what this guy is doin is hes tellin the chick she was ****in sexy. Thereby showin alittle if not alot of interest but at the same time he acts like he got better things to do then waste time with her by givin her only 1 word anwers. Always say less than nesasary. Y does this work when it comes to girls? well it just do lol....Alot of sh*t are confusin nowa days like when u come up to a hot chick and act all unimpress then shes gonna be overflow with urge to chase after you and figure out what is goin on. But ant girls always confusin since the beginin of time?....Where're all in highshool and i think this is the moment the time, our time to seduce and get lay as much as possible boys. So enjoy, get drunk, and get laid.


Leave alittle legacy behind, 1 girl at a time.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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MVP's post summed it up well...
"women always;always want what they cant have"
 
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