"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Push/Pull necessary for being a natural

Jamal

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Just curious to now if you guys do a push/pull technique for women because deciding to go natural and heard from people that it helps doing this with women. If you guys recommend it can you tell me about it cause I was reading the swingcatt real world seduction ebook and all it has is routines for this.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Kevin Feng

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As far as push/pull goes for verbal game, unless you're rolling in with a LOT of social proof or status, it won't really have a significant impact.

Push/Pull is extremely important when it comes to kino escalating because every other guy out there can't keep his grubby hands off her. So when you give her a big hug, throw her off, or if you guys are starting to get sexual, you be the first one to stop, etc etc. Don't be that next creeper dude.

It'll come with calibration, but I find that escalating to a K-close and going for the phone number is best way to deepen the interaction in my experience.

-Kevin
 

War Against Betaism

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What push/pull does for me is that it sort of gives me an idea of the interest level of the woman that I'm gaming. I guess it does help me in actually gaming but I mainly use it as a gauge to see if she's interested.
 
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