"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Push/Pull necessary for being a natural

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Jamal

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Just curious to now if you guys do a push/pull technique for women because deciding to go natural and heard from people that it helps doing this with women. If you guys recommend it can you tell me about it cause I was reading the swingcatt real world seduction ebook and all it has is routines for this.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Kevin Feng

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As far as push/pull goes for verbal game, unless you're rolling in with a LOT of social proof or status, it won't really have a significant impact.

Push/Pull is extremely important when it comes to kino escalating because every other guy out there can't keep his grubby hands off her. So when you give her a big hug, throw her off, or if you guys are starting to get sexual, you be the first one to stop, etc etc. Don't be that next creeper dude.

It'll come with calibration, but I find that escalating to a K-close and going for the phone number is best way to deepen the interaction in my experience.

-Kevin
 
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What push/pull does for me is that it sort of gives me an idea of the interest level of the woman that I'm gaming. I guess it does help me in actually gaming but I mainly use it as a gauge to see if she's interested.
 
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