"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Push/Pull in action?

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akeith90

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Using the push/pull method I got a major reaction from a girl (HB8). We were talking about our friends and stuff, and I basically rated my friends, putting her near the end. It was on Myspace (childish I know, but still good way to talk some) Mostly, she just wanted to be ahead of this one girl. This is pretty much how the convo went

Her: Why is she ahead of me? I want to be on your top 8! If you don't put me on there, I'll stop talking to you. Seriously!
Me: Hmm, alright (moved her to 8...lowest spot)
Her: Yah, 8 isn't gonna work for me
Me: You "threatened" me just to get there. Yer gonna have to add more positive things if you wanna move up.
Her: I love you!
Me: Now yer just bein a brown-noser
Her:I have no idea what yer talkin about love.
Me: Haha if you play your cards right, you just might move up to 7
Her: What can I say? I'm good at poker

Then she messaged me, tryin to get on my good side. We talked for 10 more min or so, both of us flirting, when a week earlier she'd hardly talk to me.

Shows that a lil jealousy, and not giving her what she wants can make her more interested. Now I'm not saying she's completely in to me or anything, but it gives me much more of an oppurtunity.

What do yall think of this? Did I play this out right, and do you think it'd work with other girls too?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJ_Trainee_10

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Well you are still playing the DJ thing and kinda played it out right. If it was something concrete not over the internet it would be a good move. But then again how often do you talk to her and rank her and 7 of her friends in person?
 
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dannowillbookem

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i dont see a whole lotta pushpull, i just see you giving in to her demand to be on your thing
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Docs

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Let her gain to number 5, and then drop her back down to 8 because you don't like the way her hair is, and you'll fix it [her hair] for her.

Or some crap like that....it's called disqualification.
 
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