"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Push/Pull in action?

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Using the push/pull method I got a major reaction from a girl (HB8). We were talking about our friends and stuff, and I basically rated my friends, putting her near the end. It was on Myspace (childish I know, but still good way to talk some) Mostly, she just wanted to be ahead of this one girl. This is pretty much how the convo went

Her: Why is she ahead of me? I want to be on your top 8! If you don't put me on there, I'll stop talking to you. Seriously!
Me: Hmm, alright (moved her to 8...lowest spot)
Her: Yah, 8 isn't gonna work for me
Me: You "threatened" me just to get there. Yer gonna have to add more positive things if you wanna move up.
Her: I love you!
Me: Now yer just bein a brown-noser
Her:I have no idea what yer talkin about love.
Me: Haha if you play your cards right, you just might move up to 7
Her: What can I say? I'm good at poker

Then she messaged me, tryin to get on my good side. We talked for 10 more min or so, both of us flirting, when a week earlier she'd hardly talk to me.

Shows that a lil jealousy, and not giving her what she wants can make her more interested. Now I'm not saying she's completely in to me or anything, but it gives me much more of an oppurtunity.

What do yall think of this? Did I play this out right, and do you think it'd work with other girls too?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Well you are still playing the DJ thing and kinda played it out right. If it was something concrete not over the internet it would be a good move. But then again how often do you talk to her and rank her and 7 of her friends in person?
 
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i dont see a whole lotta pushpull, i just see you giving in to her demand to be on your thing
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Let her gain to number 5, and then drop her back down to 8 because you don't like the way her hair is, and you'll fix it [her hair] for her.

Or some crap like that....it's called disqualification.
 
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