"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Push/Pull in action?

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Using the push/pull method I got a major reaction from a girl (HB8). We were talking about our friends and stuff, and I basically rated my friends, putting her near the end. It was on Myspace (childish I know, but still good way to talk some) Mostly, she just wanted to be ahead of this one girl. This is pretty much how the convo went

Her: Why is she ahead of me? I want to be on your top 8! If you don't put me on there, I'll stop talking to you. Seriously!
Me: Hmm, alright (moved her to 8...lowest spot)
Her: Yah, 8 isn't gonna work for me
Me: You "threatened" me just to get there. Yer gonna have to add more positive things if you wanna move up.
Her: I love you!
Me: Now yer just bein a brown-noser
Her:I have no idea what yer talkin about love.
Me: Haha if you play your cards right, you just might move up to 7
Her: What can I say? I'm good at poker

Then she messaged me, tryin to get on my good side. We talked for 10 more min or so, both of us flirting, when a week earlier she'd hardly talk to me.

Shows that a lil jealousy, and not giving her what she wants can make her more interested. Now I'm not saying she's completely in to me or anything, but it gives me much more of an oppurtunity.

What do yall think of this? Did I play this out right, and do you think it'd work with other girls too?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJ_Trainee_10

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Well you are still playing the DJ thing and kinda played it out right. If it was something concrete not over the internet it would be a good move. But then again how often do you talk to her and rank her and 7 of her friends in person?
 
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dannowillbookem

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i dont see a whole lotta pushpull, i just see you giving in to her demand to be on your thing
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Let her gain to number 5, and then drop her back down to 8 because you don't like the way her hair is, and you'll fix it [her hair] for her.

Or some crap like that....it's called disqualification.
 
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