"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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nice_guyeh

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Been at this new job for bout 3 mths now

theres a girl there, shes cute. funny chik. giving signs of interest
but she has a bf- who is away at school i believe. out of province.. and she is a co-worker.

Wanna see what shes about but dont wana make work wack

what ya think?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Have you tried to approach her or you think she is the most beautiful person in the world and want to spend the rest of your life with her?
 
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Mixing work with pleasure usually doesn't end up well. But if this is something you want to do, the best way to go about it is to organize office outings that way you guys can get to know each other outside of work. If you feel something is about to happen, then be completely honest in what you want and how you want to stay cool in the work place no matter what.
 
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She has a BF. She is a co worker. Are pickings that slim in (insert your town)?
 
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haha shes cute, but i dont have her on a pedastool.
Yea small area. i can drive 25 mins and be in the city.

shes cool girl,kinda **** i work with her. we'll see what happens
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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