"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Pursuing a girl that openly admitted to being bi.

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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pvf94

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Might I add she tried denying it when I first meet her. And said she wasnt a lesbian and that she liked guys.

I think this makes it easier for me to make a move on her for some reason....I can't explain it.
 

pvf94

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Aslong as I was getting in on the action I wouldn't care.


hahaha
 
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good, because the likely situation is that she is just "experimenting" and really isn't bi. Cash in now.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I dated a girl that was double bi back about 7 years ago. She was bi sexual, and also bi polar. It was a total disaster. Rule number 1, if the chick is bi, she will demand that you let her "play" with her girlfriends. So rule number 2, if she doesnt share, kick her ass to the curb. Thats what I ended up doing. The insanely crazy mood swings didnt help the matter much either.
 
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