"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Pursuing a girl that openly admitted to being bi.

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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pvf94

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Might I add she tried denying it when I first meet her. And said she wasnt a lesbian and that she liked guys.

I think this makes it easier for me to make a move on her for some reason....I can't explain it.
 

pvf94

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Aslong as I was getting in on the action I wouldn't care.


hahaha
 
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good, because the likely situation is that she is just "experimenting" and really isn't bi. Cash in now.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I dated a girl that was double bi back about 7 years ago. She was bi sexual, and also bi polar. It was a total disaster. Rule number 1, if the chick is bi, she will demand that you let her "play" with her girlfriends. So rule number 2, if she doesnt share, kick her ass to the curb. Thats what I ended up doing. The insanely crazy mood swings didnt help the matter much either.
 
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