"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Pursuing a girl that openly admitted to being bi.

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Might I add she tried denying it when I first meet her. And said she wasnt a lesbian and that she liked guys.

I think this makes it easier for me to make a move on her for some reason....I can't explain it.
 
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Aslong as I was getting in on the action I wouldn't care.


hahaha
 
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good, because the likely situation is that she is just "experimenting" and really isn't bi. Cash in now.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I dated a girl that was double bi back about 7 years ago. She was bi sexual, and also bi polar. It was a total disaster. Rule number 1, if the chick is bi, she will demand that you let her "play" with her girlfriends. So rule number 2, if she doesnt share, kick her ass to the curb. Thats what I ended up doing. The insanely crazy mood swings didnt help the matter much either.
 
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