"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Purpose of Life?

ChristopherColumbus

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I like your answer.. the only thing is I think as humans (or at least I can definitely speak for myself) I tend to rationalize situations in order to please my natural desires.
Rationalizing to please your natural desires will always lead to conflict in the psyche.

Let's keep desire central though, and then make the distinction between natural desires and rational desires. I think the happy person is one who has their natural desires subordinated to their rational desires. Not repressed, but restrained [Puritanism did a LOT of damage to our culture]. They used to call that 'continence'.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Red Legg

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I by no means am advocating any religion......but I myself am a "five point Calvinist" the theology is deep and will blow your hair back.I suspect I am the only one on SS... lol
 

Rainman4707

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You're 31. What aspects of your life would your 13-year-old self think are awesome? Chew on that for a while.
The first thing that springs to mind is that i have a really hot Gf with big tits!
 
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