"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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purpose of dating

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what the purpose of dating anyways. do u date a girl/guy as seeing em as a potential marriage partner or do ppl just date to get to now one another and hang out.
i was talking with an online friend 22 yrs and he said , he dates and thinks dating is for the purpose of marriage, while myself a late bloomer 26 never had gf thinks dating is for to get to now someone.i don't see myself marrying my first gf.lol . anyways i lack so much experience. most girl i met i met off the net.
so why do u guys date or go out -is it for marriage or just to hang out.

he says he sees himself marrying like 26-27 and myself 36 ish. so why do ppl date and what is right.

do u guys date and ask a gal out -as u seeing her a potential wife or just a friend thing .comments, advice
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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All courtship is for eventual unity through marriage and family - this is the natural order of things!!! http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=50480


This natural progression has been corrupted - and thus we have hors run amok in America and throughout, and much of the familiial chaos springs forth from this corruption!!!!
 

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Dating is foreplay. Nothing more, nothing less.

Marriages are founded on more solid things than "dating", even though dating is a crucial part of a marriage/relationship. Dating is a tool to expand on your feelings for another person.
 

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Um I date to have sex with women, And because if your dating you can date more than one person at a time

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Ideally when I find a girl I want to "date" im lookin for someone i can get along with thats fun and most importantly attractive. Physical attraction is the first thing that happens for most people. I wouldnt want to try and go out with someone I didnt think was attractive enough for me. But if you date someone long enough and really get to know them and you like being around them and talkin to and build up feelings for them then you can look at them as potential wife material. For me thats what dating is about. Youre lookin for someone that compliments you and your life. And if your lucky enough to find someone you can be in love with and vice versa then you will satisfied for life. At least thats what i think.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dating is for connecting with women.. A stepping stone.

You should never be dating looking for marriage.

Mindtrust
 

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for guys who accept the natural order of things, dating is for marriage. But if you keep your mind on marriage while you're dating, you'll probably pscyhe yourself out and screw everything up.
 

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If you go out on dates thinking of marriage, your best off sitting at home.

If she picks up on this vibe while you are out on a date, she will sprint..

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Mindtrust said:
If you go out on dates thinking of marriage, your best off sitting at home.

If she picks up on this vibe while you are out on a date, she will sprint..

Mindtrust
Hors will sprint - a woman WILL stay!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Last Man Standing said:
Hors will sprint - a woman WILL stay!!!
I enjoy reading your posts and I like your outlook..

But shouldn't we be getting to know a woman while dating, before thinking of marriage..

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Mindtrust said:
I enjoy reading your posts and I like your outlook..

But shouldn't we be getting to know a woman while dating, before thinking of marriage..

Mindtrust
This should be the intent but it is not the practice!! A few years ago a woman could not be alone with a man and only under supervision by an adult family member and at home!!! It is still like this in many countries!!

This is cultural corruption and was planned to bring in the hor/homo agenda and the break up of the family structure - - and by all measurrements the corrupt have succeeded!!
 
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