"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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purpose of dating

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what the purpose of dating anyways. do u date a girl/guy as seeing em as a potential marriage partner or do ppl just date to get to now one another and hang out.
i was talking with an online friend 22 yrs and he said , he dates and thinks dating is for the purpose of marriage, while myself a late bloomer 26 never had gf thinks dating is for to get to now someone.i don't see myself marrying my first gf.lol . anyways i lack so much experience. most girl i met i met off the net.
so why do u guys date or go out -is it for marriage or just to hang out.

he says he sees himself marrying like 26-27 and myself 36 ish. so why do ppl date and what is right.

do u guys date and ask a gal out -as u seeing her a potential wife or just a friend thing .comments, advice
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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All courtship is for eventual unity through marriage and family - this is the natural order of things!!! http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=50480


This natural progression has been corrupted - and thus we have hors run amok in America and throughout, and much of the familiial chaos springs forth from this corruption!!!!
 

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Dating is foreplay. Nothing more, nothing less.

Marriages are founded on more solid things than "dating", even though dating is a crucial part of a marriage/relationship. Dating is a tool to expand on your feelings for another person.
 

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Um I date to have sex with women, And because if your dating you can date more than one person at a time

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Ideally when I find a girl I want to "date" im lookin for someone i can get along with thats fun and most importantly attractive. Physical attraction is the first thing that happens for most people. I wouldnt want to try and go out with someone I didnt think was attractive enough for me. But if you date someone long enough and really get to know them and you like being around them and talkin to and build up feelings for them then you can look at them as potential wife material. For me thats what dating is about. Youre lookin for someone that compliments you and your life. And if your lucky enough to find someone you can be in love with and vice versa then you will satisfied for life. At least thats what i think.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dating is for connecting with women.. A stepping stone.

You should never be dating looking for marriage.

Mindtrust
 

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for guys who accept the natural order of things, dating is for marriage. But if you keep your mind on marriage while you're dating, you'll probably pscyhe yourself out and screw everything up.
 

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If you go out on dates thinking of marriage, your best off sitting at home.

If she picks up on this vibe while you are out on a date, she will sprint..

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Mindtrust said:
If you go out on dates thinking of marriage, your best off sitting at home.

If she picks up on this vibe while you are out on a date, she will sprint..

Mindtrust
Hors will sprint - a woman WILL stay!!!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Last Man Standing said:
Hors will sprint - a woman WILL stay!!!
I enjoy reading your posts and I like your outlook..

But shouldn't we be getting to know a woman while dating, before thinking of marriage..

Mindtrust
 
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Mindtrust said:
I enjoy reading your posts and I like your outlook..

But shouldn't we be getting to know a woman while dating, before thinking of marriage..

Mindtrust
This should be the intent but it is not the practice!! A few years ago a woman could not be alone with a man and only under supervision by an adult family member and at home!!! It is still like this in many countries!!

This is cultural corruption and was planned to bring in the hor/homo agenda and the break up of the family structure - - and by all measurrements the corrupt have succeeded!!
 
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