"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ok so im writing this mainly for my own benefit but there seems to be a lack of reports out in the forum at the moment so feel free to read im gonna point out where i know ive fvcked up feel free to add constructive criticism though.

Firstly, dropped into a bar to have a chat with my buddy who runs it, we planned on going out tomorrow for a few beers, and work on a few pickups.
anway i ordered food, and took a seat. the pub being pretty empty i could see only one girl, (she was about an 8). she was sat opposite a guy, ilt looked to me like a first date, looked a little awkward, closed body language (on her, his back was to me). I thought she kept looking over at me, couldnt be too sure as its quite a big place and they were sat about 20m away. So my food arrives, I go to grab some cutlery, having to go past her to get it. i make eye contact, hold it and offer her a cheeky grin. her face seems to light up and she returns the smile. so i return to my food satisfied that i was right. anyway a little later as this 'couple' were leaving, she deliderately looks my way on their way out (i see this in my periferoles) i look over and she beams a huge smile at me, i return the charming smile :wink: and hold eye contact with her until she has to turn her head to avoid turning all the way back. :D

Right heres my question to anyone reading: I had planned to go over whe he went off to the toilet and have a quick word because she'd kept looking over. Sadly i didnt get this opportunity, but on her way out i had the urge to beckon her over just to slip my number to her. this i didnt do either, is it wrong to interrupt someones first date, where the guy is clearly the 'nice guy' type and shes sending me these non verbal IOIs.
It felt like it would be reallly rude, thats why i didnt. any master DJ's think this wouldve made me seem like an arrogant rude d!ckhead. Or cheeky confident DJ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"when you get bored with that stiff who just went to the bathroom, hit me up heres my number." the ultimate ****block lol.
 

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spang said:
"when you get bored with that stiff who just went to the bathroom, hit me up heres my number." the ultimate ****block lol.
that was my plan, but sady no opportunity. doing it in front of him, would have gained a rejection (most likely out of shock/politeness ) possibly caused him to get a sympathy shag from her and the small chance that he did kick off:box: wouldve landed me with assault/ GBH charges, and the scenario would sound a lot worse when read out by the prosecution lol
 

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:D :D ok, so after the question yesterday, i met a pair of german girls, they were out doin sonething to do with kids for a few weeks, (i know i should"ve paid attentiom) but i'd had a few beers...
anyways we agreed to mee tonight , and, surprisingly they appeared(i was drunk so i couldnt be too sure theydde arrive as agreed) they didnt tell that theyd bring friends, but - since some of those friends were english lads, I said hi to the two id met last night, and proceeded t **** block 2 of their 'english friends' on one of their 19 year old colleagues(score!! the other 2 were about a n 8 and a 7, this was a 7), but i digress- shes hot, anyways, the two id me t the night before left he rwith me on the promise that id make sure she got home safe
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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oops double post... anyways..... i chat some **** to this girl and... score, plus im meetin her tomrrow for a day smashing it!!!!
 
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