"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ok so im writing this mainly for my own benefit but there seems to be a lack of reports out in the forum at the moment so feel free to read im gonna point out where i know ive fvcked up feel free to add constructive criticism though.

Firstly, dropped into a bar to have a chat with my buddy who runs it, we planned on going out tomorrow for a few beers, and work on a few pickups.
anway i ordered food, and took a seat. the pub being pretty empty i could see only one girl, (she was about an 8). she was sat opposite a guy, ilt looked to me like a first date, looked a little awkward, closed body language (on her, his back was to me). I thought she kept looking over at me, couldnt be too sure as its quite a big place and they were sat about 20m away. So my food arrives, I go to grab some cutlery, having to go past her to get it. i make eye contact, hold it and offer her a cheeky grin. her face seems to light up and she returns the smile. so i return to my food satisfied that i was right. anyway a little later as this 'couple' were leaving, she deliderately looks my way on their way out (i see this in my periferoles) i look over and she beams a huge smile at me, i return the charming smile :wink: and hold eye contact with her until she has to turn her head to avoid turning all the way back. :D

Right heres my question to anyone reading: I had planned to go over whe he went off to the toilet and have a quick word because she'd kept looking over. Sadly i didnt get this opportunity, but on her way out i had the urge to beckon her over just to slip my number to her. this i didnt do either, is it wrong to interrupt someones first date, where the guy is clearly the 'nice guy' type and shes sending me these non verbal IOIs.
It felt like it would be reallly rude, thats why i didnt. any master DJ's think this wouldve made me seem like an arrogant rude d!ckhead. Or cheeky confident DJ?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"when you get bored with that stiff who just went to the bathroom, hit me up heres my number." the ultimate ****block lol.
 

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spang said:
"when you get bored with that stiff who just went to the bathroom, hit me up heres my number." the ultimate ****block lol.
that was my plan, but sady no opportunity. doing it in front of him, would have gained a rejection (most likely out of shock/politeness ) possibly caused him to get a sympathy shag from her and the small chance that he did kick off:box: wouldve landed me with assault/ GBH charges, and the scenario would sound a lot worse when read out by the prosecution lol
 

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:D :D ok, so after the question yesterday, i met a pair of german girls, they were out doin sonething to do with kids for a few weeks, (i know i should"ve paid attentiom) but i'd had a few beers...
anyways we agreed to mee tonight , and, surprisingly they appeared(i was drunk so i couldnt be too sure theydde arrive as agreed) they didnt tell that theyd bring friends, but - since some of those friends were english lads, I said hi to the two id met last night, and proceeded t **** block 2 of their 'english friends' on one of their 19 year old colleagues(score!! the other 2 were about a n 8 and a 7, this was a 7), but i digress- shes hot, anyways, the two id me t the night before left he rwith me on the promise that id make sure she got home safe
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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oops double post... anyways..... i chat some **** to this girl and... score, plus im meetin her tomrrow for a day smashing it!!!!
 
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