When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
whoa... pupil dilation.. hmm... you know what PEA is? ever heard someone say "love is for the pea brained"... Well, in a sense, that is true. There are 3 known chemicals that travel through a persons brain when they feel the feeling "love." One of which is a PEA.. it's a Phenethylamine(PEA, but there are many types of PEA's, some of which are addictive... most of which are addictive actually) This PEA that flows through the brain causes pupil dilation and a bunch of other things, if you just look on google you will find tons of things that it does.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Originally posted by BigWillyStyle
Stop reading too much into this sorta crap. Pupil dilation can happen for many reasons, could be the lighting in the room etc..
Maybe she was shooting up heroin, that causes the pupils to dilate(or opiates in general) so don't go reading into that BS.
EG: "yeah, I knew she was into me coz I saw her pupils dilated, because of that we're now engaged to be married"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.