She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
whoa... pupil dilation.. hmm... you know what PEA is? ever heard someone say "love is for the pea brained"... Well, in a sense, that is true. There are 3 known chemicals that travel through a persons brain when they feel the feeling "love." One of which is a PEA.. it's a Phenethylamine(PEA, but there are many types of PEA's, some of which are addictive... most of which are addictive actually) This PEA that flows through the brain causes pupil dilation and a bunch of other things, if you just look on google you will find tons of things that it does.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Originally posted by BigWillyStyle
Stop reading too much into this sorta crap. Pupil dilation can happen for many reasons, could be the lighting in the room etc..
Maybe she was shooting up heroin, that causes the pupils to dilate(or opiates in general) so don't go reading into that BS.
EG: "yeah, I knew she was into me coz I saw her pupils dilated, because of that we're now engaged to be married"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.