I am looking for a bit more motivation to approach at least one girl tomorrow! Post a reasonable punishment for me if I dont approach, and I'll do it (again, if its reasonable. I'm not going to do something insane like stick my head down a toilet (but I am willing to embarrass myself publicly)).
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
NorwegianDJ
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Drop down and do 10 pushups.
narcissist
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I think the punishment would have to be more embarassing than approaching the girl, or at least seem more embarassing.. This will be the only way for you to choose the approach the next time, i dont think 10 push-ups would do the trick and eventually u would always pick the push ups
Some punishments
1. Yell out in the hallway or where there's a plethora of people something embarassing like
"I like dildos in my ass"
Or "im a stupid faggot"
2. Go up to a teacher or some authority figure and ask them a question in a gay lispy voice
Or how about this.. Man the fvck up and just approach a damn girl.. Go say hi whats up ur cute, can i pinch your adorable cheeks.. and do it with a ****y smile and who gives a damn if she doesn't respond well or if your heart is racing.. It'll add some zest to your life
Some punishments
1. Yell out in the hallway or where there's a plethora of people something embarassing like
"I like dildos in my ass"
Or "im a stupid faggot"
2. Go up to a teacher or some authority figure and ask them a question in a gay lispy voice
Or how about this.. Man the fvck up and just approach a damn girl.. Go say hi whats up ur cute, can i pinch your adorable cheeks.. and do it with a ****y smile and who gives a damn if she doesn't respond well or if your heart is racing.. It'll add some zest to your life
devilkingx2
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10 isn't enough for a good punishment, 25 atleast.NorwegianDJ said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
NorwegianDJ
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Doesnt matter, it's the act of doing it and the first few ones that are awkward. It works on the same concept as approaching.devilkingx2 said:
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Interesting, BUMP
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Wtf people. This is an interesting thread.
Punishment: Approach a really fat chick and tell her she makes you hard.
Punishment: Approach a really fat chick and tell her she makes you hard.
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The fact that you're in high school and already thinking about these situations separates you from most guys in your school. My advice would be to feel the fear and go for the girl anyway. If you don't, I would go to a mall, stand on a chair where a lot of people walk by and yell at the top of your lungs: "I'm a wussy who is scared of talking to girls. It will leave me lonely and frustrated, but I like it better than asking someone out on a date!" When you finish, do it two more times.
Some of these punishments are hilarious! But remember, u are in high school, so doing something whack will be talked about and passed around. Don't end up as the school freak...
Or u can set your ringtone to barbie girl, put the volume to full, then get your friend to ring u mid lesson or when ur in the library or something.
Or u can set your ringtone to barbie girl, put the volume to full, then get your friend to ring u mid lesson or when ur in the library or something.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
No.Danny
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There's no need for us to punish you. You've already punished yourself enough.
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