"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dangdang

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5string said:
When you are sleeping under a bridge in a 55 gal drum when it's over, I'll come get you.
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Haha! I ****ing laughed out loud
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I would tread carefully, Driggs, I really would. For however much bravado you put up here, she's got into your grey matter and its gonna take a lot of determination, some luck, some pain and shrewdness to come out of this the winner.

I think that the flaw with these creatures is that they are possessive, a fact that is little mentioned on posts about them.

My recipe for getting your own back is-

1) Take some time out from the game-a month or two to recover and also to get annoyed. Your mojo will be down at the moment so get it flowing again.

2) GO COMPLETELY GHOST N.C. (See post of that name) and under no circumstances ever contact her EVER.

3) When a new girl arrives that you like send her a picture with a caption about pleased to announce engagement. This is longer term- 3months to a year.


You have to tell yourself that these are a predatory animal that lack the comprehension level that we do.

You will never completely feel like you've won, but it will restore your confidence and sanity if you follow my advice.

Best wishes,

Tony
 
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