"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Pulling BPD Back In

dangdang

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5string said:
When you are sleeping under a bridge in a 55 gal drum when it's over, I'll come get you.
Haha! I ****ing laughed out loud
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TonyBaloney

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I would tread carefully, Driggs, I really would. For however much bravado you put up here, she's got into your grey matter and its gonna take a lot of determination, some luck, some pain and shrewdness to come out of this the winner.

I think that the flaw with these creatures is that they are possessive, a fact that is little mentioned on posts about them.

My recipe for getting your own back is-

1) Take some time out from the game-a month or two to recover and also to get annoyed. Your mojo will be down at the moment so get it flowing again.

2) GO COMPLETELY GHOST N.C. (See post of that name) and under no circumstances ever contact her EVER.

3) When a new girl arrives that you like send her a picture with a caption about pleased to announce engagement. This is longer term- 3months to a year.


You have to tell yourself that these are a predatory animal that lack the comprehension level that we do.

You will never completely feel like you've won, but it will restore your confidence and sanity if you follow my advice.

Best wishes,

Tony
 
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