"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Pulling BPD Back In

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dangdang

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5string said:
When you are sleeping under a bridge in a 55 gal drum when it's over, I'll come get you.
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Haha! I ****ing laughed out loud
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I would tread carefully, Driggs, I really would. For however much bravado you put up here, she's got into your grey matter and its gonna take a lot of determination, some luck, some pain and shrewdness to come out of this the winner.

I think that the flaw with these creatures is that they are possessive, a fact that is little mentioned on posts about them.

My recipe for getting your own back is-

1) Take some time out from the game-a month or two to recover and also to get annoyed. Your mojo will be down at the moment so get it flowing again.

2) GO COMPLETELY GHOST N.C. (See post of that name) and under no circumstances ever contact her EVER.

3) When a new girl arrives that you like send her a picture with a caption about pleased to announce engagement. This is longer term- 3months to a year.


You have to tell yourself that these are a predatory animal that lack the comprehension level that we do.

You will never completely feel like you've won, but it will restore your confidence and sanity if you follow my advice.

Best wishes,

Tony
 
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