Pulling Away

[chronus]

I know that this has been asked countless times before, but I never paid attention because it's never been a problem for me. My current girlfriend seems to be constantly pulling away from me whenever I make a move. I already know why she's so nervous(previous boyfriend, bad experience), and I am aware of the fact that she really likes me, but I can't seem to get in for a kiss. Just today we went and hung out at the park, where she constantly pulled back, then when I went to drop her off at her house, I went to put my arm around to just pull her in for the kiss, but she got out before I could.

I know everyone here's probably sick of answering questions like this, but I'd really appreciate it: how can I get her to stop?

 

[Captain Jack Sparrow]

you just really need to find a way to get her used to being close like that. maybe try holding her hand and stuff like that.

 

[maosrdbf]

I would just go up to her and say, "there is no point into us dating if you aren't going to kiss me - we might as well be friends".

 

[Escalade]

How long have you guys been dating? Because if it hasn't been long then she's probably not comfortable yet because of the reason you stated.

Be patient, she'll come around.

 

[kevbo]

Originally posted by maosrdbf
I would just go up to her and say, "there is no point into us dating if you aren't going to kiss me - we might as well be friends".

if this goes on much longer, go with /\ that. however, i suggest you give it a couple more tries. i saw something in a post somewhere that might work: say, "i bet you're a good kisser." maybe that'll work.

 

[chronus]

Originally posted by Escalade
How long have you guys been dating? Because if it hasn't been long then she's probably not comfortable yet because of the reason you stated.

Be patient, she'll come around.

we've only gone on a few dates. she's nervous because her previous boyfriend was a total **** to her, so yeah. i'm sure i'll get it soon...

 

[oakraiderz2]

Look at the n00bs go...just hold her and so she gets more comfortable with you. Once shes more comfortable with you she'll open up. Show her that youre not like her ex and that you'll treat her good.