"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Pulling at a funeral party?

Is it right to sarge at a Funeral?

  • Yes

    Votes: 5 62.5%
  • No

    Votes: 3 37.5%

  • Total voters
    8

Tomatoes

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Im going to a party tonight. Its an "In memeory of" party by a friend in the village. The family is rich and they are having a 300 person guest list mainly consisting of guests from stables and horse backgrounds (Mainly girls).

Its going to be a heaven of young potential as the boy that died was only 16.

Am i wrong going there and looking into the potential and sarging.

Think im looking for a conscience clearer.....

Also would you stick to the regular techniques. (Is C+F really going to work at a funeral party????)

What angle would you say would work at this kind of "occassion" as im a little stuck for ideas.

All opinions welcome

Sarge On!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Holland

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I'd say you can do that at the afterparty, just don't make any C+F comments about the funeral or related subjects. Just go for email and phone numbers, closing is for later.
 

Fash

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I agree with Holland.

Don't go down the very energetic, c+f route it will not go with the occasion and can be seen as inconsiderate.

Just try to talk to the one you are interested in and connect with her. She might be a little emotional, so this will give you the perfect opportunity to comfort her and get her to trust you.

Even suggest going outside for some fresh air and during conversation, try to keep things as positive as you can as the whole day will already have a negative feel to it.
 

Tomatoes

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Yeah the fresh air bit will make a good isolator. Also I can suggest a walk or something. My house is only 300 yards down the road. I will try and keep it postive but not overly happy ofc.

The other thing i was thinking is what would make a good opener?


I think i will be confident sarging at a place like this as their will be alot of people i know but at the same time I wont know most of the 300 people.

I will go for a couple of intros for opens. But as for cold approach I cant seem to think of anything.
 

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bump
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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