"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Pull this off, get laid -- video clip
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
S1NN3R
Master Don Juan
Why is it that almost all advice for getting laid these days just consists of parlor tricks and fake power plays?
BacardiGuy
Senior Don Juan
I actually want to work on that just for kicks lol
My first thought as this guy was talking was...SHOW US!!!
If it works, why is the guy talking about it in a seminar instead of taking a camera to the beach and showing us it working. He never even gave a demonstration of the roll in the seminar.
Typical DeAngelo-style keyboard jockey bullsh!t! But thanks for the link!
If it works, why is the guy talking about it in a seminar instead of taking a camera to the beach and showing us it working. He never even gave a demonstration of the roll in the seminar.
Typical DeAngelo-style keyboard jockey bullsh!t! But thanks for the link!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Come on guys, give this guy some credit.
It was a pretty decent entertaining stand up comedy for some one giving a "lecture" on picking up girls at the beach. He looks pretty cool and charismatic.
Actually when he was talking about the towel trick, I still thought it might be a real thing. But when he started to imitate the slow motion beer grabbing in the air, I finally realized he was just being funny...
It was a pretty decent entertaining stand up comedy for some one giving a "lecture" on picking up girls at the beach. He looks pretty cool and charismatic.
Actually when he was talking about the towel trick, I still thought it might be a real thing. But when he started to imitate the slow motion beer grabbing in the air, I finally realized he was just being funny...
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
He was charistmatic in the "young way". Sure he didn't look like a respected scientist or senator or anything like that, he didn't have this "mature" charism. But from my stand point, I'd rather be like him than giving out the Ronald Reagan vibe...Bvbidd said:
S1NN3R
Master Don Juan
Enh, this guy just looks like the type that would be doing Jager shots at the local meat market, just like every other Gen X wanna-be. Reagan had a quiet, confident power. I think I'd rather be the RayGun.Le Parisien said:But from my stand point, I'd rather be like him than giving out the Ronald Reagan vibe...
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
....and if you accidently land on top of the women....even better.
Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
lol, that's pretty funny. I must say that the guy telling it is pretty... well, boring - but it seems to be a funny idea.
blackatheart
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lmao that was pretty funny I would love to see someone do that and see the girls reaction
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.