"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Pull this off, get laid -- video clip
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
S1NN3R
Master Don Juan
Why is it that almost all advice for getting laid these days just consists of parlor tricks and fake power plays?
BacardiGuy
Senior Don Juan
I actually want to work on that just for kicks lol
My first thought as this guy was talking was...SHOW US!!!
If it works, why is the guy talking about it in a seminar instead of taking a camera to the beach and showing us it working. He never even gave a demonstration of the roll in the seminar.
Typical DeAngelo-style keyboard jockey bullsh!t! But thanks for the link!
If it works, why is the guy talking about it in a seminar instead of taking a camera to the beach and showing us it working. He never even gave a demonstration of the roll in the seminar.
Typical DeAngelo-style keyboard jockey bullsh!t! But thanks for the link!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Come on guys, give this guy some credit.
It was a pretty decent entertaining stand up comedy for some one giving a "lecture" on picking up girls at the beach. He looks pretty cool and charismatic.
Actually when he was talking about the towel trick, I still thought it might be a real thing. But when he started to imitate the slow motion beer grabbing in the air, I finally realized he was just being funny...
It was a pretty decent entertaining stand up comedy for some one giving a "lecture" on picking up girls at the beach. He looks pretty cool and charismatic.
Actually when he was talking about the towel trick, I still thought it might be a real thing. But when he started to imitate the slow motion beer grabbing in the air, I finally realized he was just being funny...
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
He was charistmatic in the "young way". Sure he didn't look like a respected scientist or senator or anything like that, he didn't have this "mature" charism. But from my stand point, I'd rather be like him than giving out the Ronald Reagan vibe...Bvbidd said:
S1NN3R
Master Don Juan
Enh, this guy just looks like the type that would be doing Jager shots at the local meat market, just like every other Gen X wanna-be. Reagan had a quiet, confident power. I think I'd rather be the RayGun.Le Parisien said:But from my stand point, I'd rather be like him than giving out the Ronald Reagan vibe...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
....and if you accidently land on top of the women....even better.
Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
lol, that's pretty funny. I must say that the guy telling it is pretty... well, boring - but it seems to be a funny idea.
blackatheart
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lmao that was pretty funny I would love to see someone do that and see the girls reaction
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.