"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Nocturnal

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Matrix I've tried PMing you this but never heard anything:

Hey Matrix, Allen said I would need a mod to edit a post, so I was wondering if you would go to my Mini Bible post (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=24181) and go to edit and copy and paste everything thats in it and send it to me so I can edit without having to redo the fonts and especially links before I send it back to you. A lot of the links are dead and I need to fix it up.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Antichrist_Star

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Hmm... box never said I had anything... eh... I will have someone take care of it for you... or will do it myself. :)
 

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Originally posted by crazykid
Because it's a quote from Ray Bradbury.
OK then. :D The only reason I ask is because I'm learning German and that word order is always a bit confusing. They put the second verb at the end of a sentence, like we used to in Old English. BTW, Nocturnal, sprechen Sie Deutsch? ;)
 

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"Something wicked this way comes" originates from Shakespeare's "Macbeth", not from Ray Bradbury.

Nice try though, college kids.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Eternal

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Originally posted by Enduro
"Something wicked this way comes" originates from Shakespeare's "Macbeth", not from Ray Bradbury.

Nice try though, college kids.
It's also a book by Ray Bradbury, so we are both correct. I never bothered to read all of McBeth, so I didn't know that.
 

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college is worthless

you learn just as much here as you do there:D

jk
Stay in school. Don't be a fool.:cool:

And I am waiting patiently for the new bible by Matrix
 
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