I go out and about and I'm shocked how often I see a hot girl with some chubby, terribly dressed dude who looks like he doesn't have 10 cents to his name
I personally had a terrible childhood as a kid in terms of dating and it developed some horrible thinking patterns in my head in terms of being extremely negative/defeatist and feeling like dating is impossible and that women have insurmountable standards. I'm realizing how ridiculous that is - because there are men who don't have any of my superficial or character traits who have had a 100 times more dating success than I've had and it's all because they've approached dating from a healthy/positive/confident perspective and I haven't.
From now on, we all need to tell ourselves any woman that we approach is very fortunate to be around us and believe that 1000%. I'm not trying to be ****y but I'm realizing how incredibly unique/rare I am - there are so SO SOOOOOO few men out there who have my combination of looks and money but also genuinely a good person (plus the fact that I'm perfect age, no kids, never been married). I'm trying hard to believe in myself 100% and I'm slowly getting there.
I personally had a terrible childhood as a kid in terms of dating and it developed some horrible thinking patterns in my head in terms of being extremely negative/defeatist and feeling like dating is impossible and that women have insurmountable standards. I'm realizing how ridiculous that is - because there are men who don't have any of my superficial or character traits who have had a 100 times more dating success than I've had and it's all because they've approached dating from a healthy/positive/confident perspective and I haven't.
From now on, we all need to tell ourselves any woman that we approach is very fortunate to be around us and believe that 1000%. I'm not trying to be ****y but I'm realizing how incredibly unique/rare I am - there are so SO SOOOOOO few men out there who have my combination of looks and money but also genuinely a good person (plus the fact that I'm perfect age, no kids, never been married). I'm trying hard to believe in myself 100% and I'm slowly getting there.
