"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PUA's not found in Sweden

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Can you believe this craziness:


http://www.marieclaire.com/world-reports/news/international/best-country

Apparently, it is public policy in Sweden to attempt to bury masculine qualities at a very young age to give women a fighting chance. Reading this made me feel sorry for the men in that country. Hopefully they don't ever have to come to the United States, they would be in for a massive culture shock.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Look at politics in sweden

Women are in Leadership

Duffdog said:
Can you believe this craziness:


http://www.marieclaire.com/world-reports/news/international/best-country

Apparently, it is public policy in Sweden to attempt to bury masculine qualities at a very young age to give women a fighting chance. Reading this made me feel sorry for the men in that country. Hopefully they don't ever have to come to the United States, they would be in for a massive culture shock.
 

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This is abosolutely one of the WORST and most horrible cases of institutionalized feminism I have ever seen or read about in my entire life! :cuss:

MarieClaire.com said:
The goal of equality starts young: "Anti-Sexism Awareness Training" begins in kindergarten, where male toddlers are encouraged to play with dolls, and females with toy tractors. In school, classes in cooking, sewing, metalworking, and woodworking are compulsory for both sexes. All education, including college, is free, and girls routinely outperform boys; in 2005, women made up more than 60 percent of all Swedish college students. All this adds up to more flexible gender roles later: As one Swedish website puts it, "In our country, women drive the buses and men push the baby buggies."
Fortunately, that last line surely takes away the burden of responsibility off the backs of many men ;)

MarieClaire.com said:
women made up more than 60 percent of all Swedish college students.
I can't really complain about that one either...
If you're smart enough to actually make it to College, you will be swimming in pvssy as soon as you get there :p
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MarieClaire.com said:
With gender equality comes further dating awkwardness: By American standards, Swedish men are painfully slow to make the first romantic move. "Men treat women like friends," Anna-Maria says. "They rarely chat you up, unless they're drunk." Instead, Anna-Maria often does the asking herself. "Sure, I'd like to be chased, but men have grown lazy in Sweden. So I take the initiative. Though I have to say, it detracts from the sexual intrigue."
Time and time again, women are eventually finding out that the more they try to change and immasculate men, they are only hurting themselves in the long run.....
 

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That's why Sweden has a lot of fags and girly-men.


Cheers!
 

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Let's organize a SoSuave meet in Sweden!

Social system shock FTW
 

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OTB said:
Time and time again, women are eventually finding out that the more they try to change and immasculate men, they are only hurting themselves in the long run.....
The system is self-repairing. These women will either find bad boys or players to mate with (offspring) or not at all. Either way, the emasculated men won't spread the seed much.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Alle_Gory said:
The system is self-repairing. These women will either find bad boys or players to mate with (offspring) or not at all. Either way, the emasculated men won't spread the seed much.
Can't argue with that kind of logic Alle_Gory ;)

But the process of weeding out the weak men from the strong would occuring at a much faster rate and would be that much more brutal in places with a social environment like that found in Sweden...
 

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If you're smart enough to actually make it to College, you will be swimming in pvssy as soon as you get there :p
oh yeah it's so awesome. NOT. Granted, women are the great majority in my study (criminology) but seriously none of them are what I'd consider hot. Hot college girls are rare over here anyway. Maybe they all went to another city as soon as they heard of my arrival.
 

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Seems like a nice place for sarging. I'm sure PUAs from UK take full advantage of this. Fewer alpha male competition, and much more friendly females.. seems like a good deal to me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hmm... Maybe I should go to sweden for collage! 'tis free you say?
For residents. You'd be a foreign student. Its expensive.
 
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