"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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PUA's not found in Sweden

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Can you believe this craziness:


http://www.marieclaire.com/world-reports/news/international/best-country

Apparently, it is public policy in Sweden to attempt to bury masculine qualities at a very young age to give women a fighting chance. Reading this made me feel sorry for the men in that country. Hopefully they don't ever have to come to the United States, they would be in for a massive culture shock.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Look at politics in sweden

Women are in Leadership

Duffdog said:
Can you believe this craziness:


http://www.marieclaire.com/world-reports/news/international/best-country

Apparently, it is public policy in Sweden to attempt to bury masculine qualities at a very young age to give women a fighting chance. Reading this made me feel sorry for the men in that country. Hopefully they don't ever have to come to the United States, they would be in for a massive culture shock.
 

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This is abosolutely one of the WORST and most horrible cases of institutionalized feminism I have ever seen or read about in my entire life! :cuss:

MarieClaire.com said:
The goal of equality starts young: "Anti-Sexism Awareness Training" begins in kindergarten, where male toddlers are encouraged to play with dolls, and females with toy tractors. In school, classes in cooking, sewing, metalworking, and woodworking are compulsory for both sexes. All education, including college, is free, and girls routinely outperform boys; in 2005, women made up more than 60 percent of all Swedish college students. All this adds up to more flexible gender roles later: As one Swedish website puts it, "In our country, women drive the buses and men push the baby buggies."
Fortunately, that last line surely takes away the burden of responsibility off the backs of many men ;)

MarieClaire.com said:
women made up more than 60 percent of all Swedish college students.
I can't really complain about that one either...
If you're smart enough to actually make it to College, you will be swimming in pvssy as soon as you get there :p
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MarieClaire.com said:
With gender equality comes further dating awkwardness: By American standards, Swedish men are painfully slow to make the first romantic move. "Men treat women like friends," Anna-Maria says. "They rarely chat you up, unless they're drunk." Instead, Anna-Maria often does the asking herself. "Sure, I'd like to be chased, but men have grown lazy in Sweden. So I take the initiative. Though I have to say, it detracts from the sexual intrigue."
Time and time again, women are eventually finding out that the more they try to change and immasculate men, they are only hurting themselves in the long run.....
 

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That's why Sweden has a lot of fags and girly-men.


Cheers!
 

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Let's organize a SoSuave meet in Sweden!

Social system shock FTW
 

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OTB said:
Time and time again, women are eventually finding out that the more they try to change and immasculate men, they are only hurting themselves in the long run.....
The system is self-repairing. These women will either find bad boys or players to mate with (offspring) or not at all. Either way, the emasculated men won't spread the seed much.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Alle_Gory said:
The system is self-repairing. These women will either find bad boys or players to mate with (offspring) or not at all. Either way, the emasculated men won't spread the seed much.
Can't argue with that kind of logic Alle_Gory ;)

But the process of weeding out the weak men from the strong would occuring at a much faster rate and would be that much more brutal in places with a social environment like that found in Sweden...
 

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If you're smart enough to actually make it to College, you will be swimming in pvssy as soon as you get there :p
oh yeah it's so awesome. NOT. Granted, women are the great majority in my study (criminology) but seriously none of them are what I'd consider hot. Hot college girls are rare over here anyway. Maybe they all went to another city as soon as they heard of my arrival.
 

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Seems like a nice place for sarging. I'm sure PUAs from UK take full advantage of this. Fewer alpha male competition, and much more friendly females.. seems like a good deal to me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hmm... Maybe I should go to sweden for collage! 'tis free you say?
For residents. You'd be a foreign student. Its expensive.
 
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