Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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PUA's not found in Sweden

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Can you believe this craziness:


http://www.marieclaire.com/world-reports/news/international/best-country

Apparently, it is public policy in Sweden to attempt to bury masculine qualities at a very young age to give women a fighting chance. Reading this made me feel sorry for the men in that country. Hopefully they don't ever have to come to the United States, they would be in for a massive culture shock.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Look at politics in sweden

Women are in Leadership

Duffdog said:
Can you believe this craziness:


http://www.marieclaire.com/world-reports/news/international/best-country

Apparently, it is public policy in Sweden to attempt to bury masculine qualities at a very young age to give women a fighting chance. Reading this made me feel sorry for the men in that country. Hopefully they don't ever have to come to the United States, they would be in for a massive culture shock.
 

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This is abosolutely one of the WORST and most horrible cases of institutionalized feminism I have ever seen or read about in my entire life! :cuss:

MarieClaire.com said:
The goal of equality starts young: "Anti-Sexism Awareness Training" begins in kindergarten, where male toddlers are encouraged to play with dolls, and females with toy tractors. In school, classes in cooking, sewing, metalworking, and woodworking are compulsory for both sexes. All education, including college, is free, and girls routinely outperform boys; in 2005, women made up more than 60 percent of all Swedish college students. All this adds up to more flexible gender roles later: As one Swedish website puts it, "In our country, women drive the buses and men push the baby buggies."
Fortunately, that last line surely takes away the burden of responsibility off the backs of many men ;)

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women made up more than 60 percent of all Swedish college students.
I can't really complain about that one either...
If you're smart enough to actually make it to College, you will be swimming in pvssy as soon as you get there :p
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MarieClaire.com said:
With gender equality comes further dating awkwardness: By American standards, Swedish men are painfully slow to make the first romantic move. "Men treat women like friends," Anna-Maria says. "They rarely chat you up, unless they're drunk." Instead, Anna-Maria often does the asking herself. "Sure, I'd like to be chased, but men have grown lazy in Sweden. So I take the initiative. Though I have to say, it detracts from the sexual intrigue."
Time and time again, women are eventually finding out that the more they try to change and immasculate men, they are only hurting themselves in the long run.....
 

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That's why Sweden has a lot of fags and girly-men.


Cheers!
 

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Let's organize a SoSuave meet in Sweden!

Social system shock FTW
 

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OTB said:
Time and time again, women are eventually finding out that the more they try to change and immasculate men, they are only hurting themselves in the long run.....
The system is self-repairing. These women will either find bad boys or players to mate with (offspring) or not at all. Either way, the emasculated men won't spread the seed much.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Alle_Gory said:
The system is self-repairing. These women will either find bad boys or players to mate with (offspring) or not at all. Either way, the emasculated men won't spread the seed much.
Can't argue with that kind of logic Alle_Gory ;)

But the process of weeding out the weak men from the strong would occuring at a much faster rate and would be that much more brutal in places with a social environment like that found in Sweden...
 

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If you're smart enough to actually make it to College, you will be swimming in pvssy as soon as you get there :p
oh yeah it's so awesome. NOT. Granted, women are the great majority in my study (criminology) but seriously none of them are what I'd consider hot. Hot college girls are rare over here anyway. Maybe they all went to another city as soon as they heard of my arrival.
 

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Seems like a nice place for sarging. I'm sure PUAs from UK take full advantage of this. Fewer alpha male competition, and much more friendly females.. seems like a good deal to me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hmm... Maybe I should go to sweden for collage! 'tis free you say?
For residents. You'd be a foreign student. Its expensive.
 
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