"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PUA thinks you should move to Vegas to pick up women

skinnyguy

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Thoughts?

Personally I think that if you move to Vegas to promote clubs that probably means you have no career at the moment. I mean if you live in a city like LA, Dallas, Miami, NYC, Chicago there are already plenty of women there and the guys who are in decent shape will pull.

Seems like "dropping everything to learn game" would be for guys who don't have any ambition in life other than sticking their d*ck in a woman. I go to Vegas once in a while, but when I leave I know that I have an actual life to go back to.

The advantage of this scenario would obviously be the abundance factor. Women in Vegas are dtf for the most part and there's always a party going on.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The first thing to becoming good in picking up women is to go out and meet women. You must go where the ladies are at. One great place is at work. What better way to practice your attraction skills than to do it on the job.
Haha NOPE
 

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skinnyguy said:
Seems like "dropping everything to learn game" would be for guys who don't have any ambition in life other than sticking their d*ck in a woman.
A lot of gurus advise this sort of thing, but it really goes against the basic SoSuave principal "Don't let women be your priority", doesn't it?
 

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that probably means you have no career

guys who don't have any ambition in life

I have an actual life


If you would drop the jealous, bitter, passive-aggressive sour grapes routine, then you'd probably start getting laid.

Your attitude reeks of failure and low self-esteem. You think it's not obvious, but it is. I can see it, and so can women. That's why you don't get pvssy. It has nothing to do with the unfairness of the world. The problem is your sh!tty attitude. If you would just change that, then suddenly the world will become a very different place.
 

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Who are you talking to?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The OP. I am sick of his whiny, b!tchy excuse-making threads about why he can't get laid. He's the wrong race, the wrong build, the wrong looks. He lives in the wrong city. Women aren't that great anyway; they can give you cooties. And the men who do get laid are losers anyway.

That attitude is pvssy repellant. There's nothing wrong with him except his attitude.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
The OP. I am sick of his whiny, b!tchy excuse-making threads about why he can't get laid. He's the wrong race, the wrong build, the wrong looks. He lives in the wrong city. Women aren't that great anyway; they can give you cooties. And the men who do get laid are losers anyway.

That attitude is pvssy repellant. There's nothing wrong with him except his attitude.

Lol I have a hot gf who bangs my brains out. Seems like you're the one with the bad attitude
 

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Never liked Vegas, every woman I talked to there was expecting to be paid...
 

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Vegas is great if you want to go after low hanging fruit as in emotionally damaged women. Don't get me wrong love Vegas for a vacation but it's place you visit not live in.
 
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