"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BRUCEWAYNE

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It is summer and I haven't had a gf in 2 years. I am 17 and the only success I had was after a few drinks at a couple parties but now that has stopped to. I want to start approaching but I never done this seriously. There is also Mystery 's show coming out and alota chicks I will approach will say "get a life yu creep etc thinking I just learned about the community".

Bottom Line: how should I start this pickup business? I'm ready and willing to do anything but I don't know where to start.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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aussiegoat55

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BRUCEWAYNE said:
It is summer and I haven't had a gf in 2 years. I am 17 and the only success I had was after a few drinks at a couple parties but now that has stopped to. I want to start approaching but I never done this seriously. There is also Mystery 's show coming out and alota chicks I will approach will say "get a life yu creep etc thinking I just learned about the community".

Bottom Line: how should I start this pickup business? I'm ready and willing to do anything but I don't know where to start.
Anything? Ok, here's what you need to do. First, go to a hardware store, any will do, ACE, OSH, Home Depot, whatever. Get a shop vac, extension cord, and broom.

Take your shop vac to a party where there are plenty of hot girls, plug it in using the extension cord, turn it on, and proceed to pick up the chicks. Let the vac do all the work. Just an FYI, the skinnier the better, that way the vac hose won't strech. Then, when you pick 'em up, use the broom the sweep them off their feet.

Try it.

...or you could read 'Kill that Desperation" and "Be a Man" threads
 

NickBe

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BRUCEWAYNE said:
It is summer and I haven't had a gf in 2 years. I am 17 and the only success I had was after a few drinks at a couple parties but now that has stopped to. I want to start approaching but I never done this seriously. There is also Mystery 's show coming out and alota chicks I will approach will say "get a life yu creep etc thinking I just learned about the community".

Bottom Line: how should I start this pickup business? I'm ready and willing to do anything but I don't know where to start.
Men have been courting women since the dawn of time so no woman will say 'get a life I just saw Mystery's show' unless you start doing some of Mystery's magic tricks. Also the book 'The game' has been out for two years, most young people already know about the seduction community. The guy that wrote the book was interviewed all over the place.

As for how you start, it is dependent on a number of things. The first thing I would do is improve my appearance. Be it clothing, losing weight or gaining muscle. Also you should learn the basics about attracting women and start approaching.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Night Owl

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Start by reading the DJ Bible just below:

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

Read it right though and then go apply some of the techniques in bible - they do work.
 

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i agree bachelor, start checkin your mindset, attitude, find out why you wanna change cause its important to consider what its all about and what it is not.

of course u can also start with changing your appearance etc, however that does not change _you_. so much is said and written, just look around and actually there is no starting point, you just could start right now without any readin and start approaching immediatly to find out on your own.
 

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Jay Jay said:
May I suggest a bat suit?
Come on, am I the only one who actually thought that was funny? Sounded even funnier to me, specially since he mentioned Mystery.:D

As far as Mystery's show, I doubt it will have much 'how to' type of content, and more of following some guys, it is a reality show type of production anyway, and see how they do and do a critique. The show won't change anything about pick up.
 
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