"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It is summer and I haven't had a gf in 2 years. I am 17 and the only success I had was after a few drinks at a couple parties but now that has stopped to. I want to start approaching but I never done this seriously. There is also Mystery 's show coming out and alota chicks I will approach will say "get a life yu creep etc thinking I just learned about the community".

Bottom Line: how should I start this pickup business? I'm ready and willing to do anything but I don't know where to start.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BRUCEWAYNE said:
It is summer and I haven't had a gf in 2 years. I am 17 and the only success I had was after a few drinks at a couple parties but now that has stopped to. I want to start approaching but I never done this seriously. There is also Mystery 's show coming out and alota chicks I will approach will say "get a life yu creep etc thinking I just learned about the community".

Bottom Line: how should I start this pickup business? I'm ready and willing to do anything but I don't know where to start.
Anything? Ok, here's what you need to do. First, go to a hardware store, any will do, ACE, OSH, Home Depot, whatever. Get a shop vac, extension cord, and broom.

Take your shop vac to a party where there are plenty of hot girls, plug it in using the extension cord, turn it on, and proceed to pick up the chicks. Let the vac do all the work. Just an FYI, the skinnier the better, that way the vac hose won't strech. Then, when you pick 'em up, use the broom the sweep them off their feet.

Try it.

...or you could read 'Kill that Desperation" and "Be a Man" threads
 

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BRUCEWAYNE said:
It is summer and I haven't had a gf in 2 years. I am 17 and the only success I had was after a few drinks at a couple parties but now that has stopped to. I want to start approaching but I never done this seriously. There is also Mystery 's show coming out and alota chicks I will approach will say "get a life yu creep etc thinking I just learned about the community".

Bottom Line: how should I start this pickup business? I'm ready and willing to do anything but I don't know where to start.
Men have been courting women since the dawn of time so no woman will say 'get a life I just saw Mystery's show' unless you start doing some of Mystery's magic tricks. Also the book 'The game' has been out for two years, most young people already know about the seduction community. The guy that wrote the book was interviewed all over the place.

As for how you start, it is dependent on a number of things. The first thing I would do is improve my appearance. Be it clothing, losing weight or gaining muscle. Also you should learn the basics about attracting women and start approaching.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Start by reading the DJ Bible just below:

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

Read it right though and then go apply some of the techniques in bible - they do work.
 

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i agree bachelor, start checkin your mindset, attitude, find out why you wanna change cause its important to consider what its all about and what it is not.

of course u can also start with changing your appearance etc, however that does not change _you_. so much is said and written, just look around and actually there is no starting point, you just could start right now without any readin and start approaching immediatly to find out on your own.
 

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Jay Jay said:
May I suggest a bat suit?
Come on, am I the only one who actually thought that was funny? Sounded even funnier to me, specially since he mentioned Mystery.:D

As far as Mystery's show, I doubt it will have much 'how to' type of content, and more of following some guys, it is a reality show type of production anyway, and see how they do and do a critique. The show won't change anything about pick up.
 
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