DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
I see Mystery with some pretty Average looking girls.. not ugly but not as hot as I would expect.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Ive never seen katya before, do you have any pics?Rollo Tomassi said:To be completely honest, I don't see these guys with any chick I'd personally rate above an HB8. Style's ex I'd rate an HB8, but I have pretty high standards. Even Kataya from the game I would rate a 7.5 at best.
And don't be fooled by the Dahm triplets shot there either, they take pictures with a lot of guys at special events.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
All of those pics are Mystery.Espi said:A few of those pics aren't Mystery, though. He's 6'5". Looks like a Mystery impersonator in few of those pics.
I wholeheartedly agree.God_of_getting_layed said:1. all these guys are ugly a fvck accept for 2
2. none of these guys score real hot *****es, they score cute girls at best
3. theyre not proof that looks dont matter, but they are proof that the numbers game works. Even if your ugly, you can try chick after chick after chick, youll eventually find an anomaly that ethier thinks your hot, or an anomaly that doesnt care about the way a guy looks. Your typical hot chick requires atleast a guy who is "cute" in her eyes. THese guys have been labeled PUAs only becuase theyve gotten lots of chicks via the numbers game. What they dont want you to know is the huge number of rejections they have experienced in the process. Its probably a number so big you have to use scientific notation to write it out lol.
4. Some of these guys are phonies. the first out of the many that comes to mind is David Dangelo and Ross Jefferies, theres many more phonies in that page of so called "PUAs."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
It didnt help you one bit huh?You're supposed to try one method that fits your personality, not try all of them. They may not be the answer to beautiful supermodels but they still get women because of what they do.Bvbidd said:Nobody has.
They're fvcken losers.
I've tried all their stuff and it's gay as fvck and got no results I also see guys who act like them and they get a lot of attention and no pvssy. Girls think PUAs are sad.
The second I went AFC I got pvssy. The only catch was I had to have some actual value, not pretend I do with gay "pua skills". Oh, I'm not as ugly as these fvcks. Probally neither is 3/4 of this board.
Girls don't care if your AFC, as long as your not a loser or ugly. It's fvcken simple.
Oh, sorry, I didn't know you knew all of these people personally. After all, how else would you know everything about them and their social life?God_of_getting_layed said:1. all these guys are ugly a fvck accept for 2
2. none of these guys score real hot *****es, they score cute girls at best
3. theyre not proof that looks dont matter, but they are proof that the numbers game works. Even if your ugly, you can try chick after chick after chick, youll eventually find an anomaly that ethier thinks your hot, or an anomaly that doesnt care about the way a guy looks. Your typical hot chick requires atleast a guy who is "cute" in her eyes. THese guys have been labeled PUAs only becuase theyve gotten lots of chicks via the numbers game. What they dont want you to know is the huge number of rejections they have experienced in the process. Its probably a number so big you have to use scientific notation to write it out lol.
4. Some of these guys are phonies. the first out of the many that comes to mind is David Dangelo and Ross Jefferies, theres many more phonies in that page of so called "PUAs."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.