DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
I see Mystery with some pretty Average looking girls.. not ugly but not as hot as I would expect.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Ive never seen katya before, do you have any pics?Rollo Tomassi said:To be completely honest, I don't see these guys with any chick I'd personally rate above an HB8. Style's ex I'd rate an HB8, but I have pretty high standards. Even Kataya from the game I would rate a 7.5 at best.
And don't be fooled by the Dahm triplets shot there either, they take pictures with a lot of guys at special events.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
All of those pics are Mystery.Espi said:A few of those pics aren't Mystery, though. He's 6'5". Looks like a Mystery impersonator in few of those pics.
I wholeheartedly agree.God_of_getting_layed said:1. all these guys are ugly a fvck accept for 2
2. none of these guys score real hot *****es, they score cute girls at best
3. theyre not proof that looks dont matter, but they are proof that the numbers game works. Even if your ugly, you can try chick after chick after chick, youll eventually find an anomaly that ethier thinks your hot, or an anomaly that doesnt care about the way a guy looks. Your typical hot chick requires atleast a guy who is "cute" in her eyes. THese guys have been labeled PUAs only becuase theyve gotten lots of chicks via the numbers game. What they dont want you to know is the huge number of rejections they have experienced in the process. Its probably a number so big you have to use scientific notation to write it out lol.
4. Some of these guys are phonies. the first out of the many that comes to mind is David Dangelo and Ross Jefferies, theres many more phonies in that page of so called "PUAs."
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
It didnt help you one bit huh?You're supposed to try one method that fits your personality, not try all of them. They may not be the answer to beautiful supermodels but they still get women because of what they do.Bvbidd said:Nobody has.
They're fvcken losers.
I've tried all their stuff and it's gay as fvck and got no results I also see guys who act like them and they get a lot of attention and no pvssy. Girls think PUAs are sad.
The second I went AFC I got pvssy. The only catch was I had to have some actual value, not pretend I do with gay "pua skills". Oh, I'm not as ugly as these fvcks. Probally neither is 3/4 of this board.
Girls don't care if your AFC, as long as your not a loser or ugly. It's fvcken simple.
Oh, sorry, I didn't know you knew all of these people personally. After all, how else would you know everything about them and their social life?God_of_getting_layed said:1. all these guys are ugly a fvck accept for 2
2. none of these guys score real hot *****es, they score cute girls at best
3. theyre not proof that looks dont matter, but they are proof that the numbers game works. Even if your ugly, you can try chick after chick after chick, youll eventually find an anomaly that ethier thinks your hot, or an anomaly that doesnt care about the way a guy looks. Your typical hot chick requires atleast a guy who is "cute" in her eyes. THese guys have been labeled PUAs only becuase theyve gotten lots of chicks via the numbers game. What they dont want you to know is the huge number of rejections they have experienced in the process. Its probably a number so big you have to use scientific notation to write it out lol.
4. Some of these guys are phonies. the first out of the many that comes to mind is David Dangelo and Ross Jefferies, theres many more phonies in that page of so called "PUAs."
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.