Depends what you're really talking about.
Generally speaking, there's natural game, developed game and PUA stuff.
The PUA sh*t was gimmicky and started to become dated years ago. If you're still running routines, canned lines and "peacocking", then yeah, you're probably going to get blow out a lot these days.
Developed game is a lot like SS and similar places. Basically, guys with no clue who are working hard to get a clue. That comes with basic rules/guidelines, tips, personal growth, etc. There is a mixture in this aspect which blends basic principles that will always ring true, like having confidence and so forth, and then there's tips/tricks that become dated as the scene/game changes over time. It's almost like a mixture between natural game and PUA stuff.
A perfect example is texting. 5+ years ago texting was heavily considered beta for a man because it was a sign you were too timid and shy to actually talk to women. It portrayed weakness to some extent. But today, it's virtually impossible to avoid it. Even if you limit it's use to bare essentials, you still have to use it in some capacity. Then you have other things like the 3-day rule, etc. that eventually become dated as well.
Natural game never gets old because it's not based on hard rules or an organized system of any kind. It's just the ability to read circumstances, read people and react intuitively to these things, even if it flies in the face of "the rules" and tips of developed game. A guy with natural game, for example, will wait a few days or a week to contact one girl, because he read the vibe & dynamics of the situation in a way he determines it necessary. While with another woman he will get in touch with her hours later, the same day or the following evening because he got a very different kind of vibe. It's all very dynamic, on the fly, case by case. There are no true, universal solutions. Because of this, from the eyes of someone doing developed stuff, a natural will seem to come off as very DJ one moment and somewhat questionable the next.
All great information and will digest the natural game and high self esteem
Here is what I currently use
Things that make her wet
Don't be needy
Don't chase her.
Be calm Composure, chill, cool, relaxed, control is sexy. Don't react to her insults. She cancels a date - ignore her. If shes late have composure, don't lecture her.
Never freak out. I am a cool guy who has other things going on and my life doesn't focus on her. THIS KEEPS YOU INTERESTING.
Denying her your d1ck – cancelling dates, blowing her off, saying no to her
Having backbone – be lenient, draw a hard line with her on how she is allowed to treat you. Say f*ck you to her sometimes.
Shut up and listen to her – If you want to get laid shut up.
Talk your way into her pants – Appeal to her mind and emotions. Appeal to her emotions - Talk about sights, smells, tastes, foods, sensual stuff
Be genuinely interested – Ask her questions, listen to her on a deep level.
Be straightforward with her - Tell her straight up what you want. She will freak out--but never apologize, be calm and cool with a smirk on your face. (confidence, high value, high status)
Be authentic and real – be honest if she messes up. You are not scared of being real.
Be positive when rejected – Act happy about it. Sometimes girls get off on the fact that her rejections didn't faze you and you were positive about it.
Don't smile – If you are a man then you should
smile less often during the first meeting or the first encounter but later on after you make sure you displayed the right status you can smile more often. Brooding look.
Feature your insecurities – Lose your ego, downplay yourself, humble yourself – say im ugly, old, short – let her know you are comfortable in your own skin and can handle your insecurities.
How you behave, not what you say – 90% communication is behavior. Your behavior should be masculine and are you responding like a secure, high value man who has a life? Your life and time is more important than her. Break the rapport. No long texts, no machine gun texting, no passionate conversations, not being totally into her. 90% of how you act, respond, and behave around her spikes attraction.
Be a fun a22hole – sarcastic comments, tease her, make her laugh, self assured, confident, honest in your approach
Ignore her – when she cancels dates
Abundance – have other women in your life
Self-control – touching her then not touching her, not latched onto her, walking away from her briefly to talk to someone else, then coming back.
Have a “take or leave it” attitude - friendzone her, be chill, not texting her, not into her, not caring of the outcome, no emotional investment
Social proof - talk to everyone at venue such as guys, ugly girls, bartenders
Let her go free - Love her from a distance and don't be too available. Let them date other men and be positive about it. Tell them you like to share and sometimes I tell them I am not looking for a girlfriend. (raises your value because you are not needy and don't care)
End dates first
End phone calls first
Not emotionally involved – not caring. Be engaged, but detached.
Not trying to hook up - Dont try to hook up, just be charming, be yourself, dont flirt and she bangs you that night.
Texts – don't respond to her “one or two word texts.” It means she is losing interest. Best way to gain her interest back is
do not respond to her text. Never say goodnight.
