"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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psysically unresposive women?

mcs

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a question. i have this mindset 'if it's not loud NO then its silent YES'. so i got a woman with that. but the problem is - she is physically very very unresponsive. and that's it. really enjoys anything i do but just lies there. and it holds me back too. you know... to truly unleash the power of sx. she had long and frustrating relationship before i came.
and yes i can always back off from her, i know that. but maybe there's some advice? the question is - how to turn a woman more responsive? and maybe there's no answer at all...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Scaramouche

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Dear MCS,
Very common situation....At first you are happy that she will let you into her pants,but then you want her to enjoy it,she will see this as greedy...If you are a highly sexed man move on,it won't get better....If she doesn't need sex now you can bet London to a brick she will rarely indulge your needs in two years time....Ration her to maybe two interfaces a week and then look for more sexually compatible plates to spin.
 

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Tell her! Tell her that you feel like you're molesting a coma patient when you bang her! Tell her to make some noise, move around, tell her want you want her to do. Perhaps she's just waiting for instructions.

If things don't change...so what? Sounds like you're about ready to dump her anyway.
 

Libertine79

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Water made a great point - communication is the only way through this... After that If it doesn't change; or she gives you some half-@ssed excuse then let her go...

Don't waste your time with someone not giving you what you want.
 
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