"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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psysically unresposive women?

mcs

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a question. i have this mindset 'if it's not loud NO then its silent YES'. so i got a woman with that. but the problem is - she is physically very very unresponsive. and that's it. really enjoys anything i do but just lies there. and it holds me back too. you know... to truly unleash the power of sx. she had long and frustrating relationship before i came.
and yes i can always back off from her, i know that. but maybe there's some advice? the question is - how to turn a woman more responsive? and maybe there's no answer at all...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Scaramouche

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Dear MCS,
Very common situation....At first you are happy that she will let you into her pants,but then you want her to enjoy it,she will see this as greedy...If you are a highly sexed man move on,it won't get better....If she doesn't need sex now you can bet London to a brick she will rarely indulge your needs in two years time....Ration her to maybe two interfaces a week and then look for more sexually compatible plates to spin.
 

WaterTiger

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Tell her! Tell her that you feel like you're molesting a coma patient when you bang her! Tell her to make some noise, move around, tell her want you want her to do. Perhaps she's just waiting for instructions.

If things don't change...so what? Sounds like you're about ready to dump her anyway.
 

Libertine79

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Water made a great point - communication is the only way through this... After that If it doesn't change; or she gives you some half-@ssed excuse then let her go...

Don't waste your time with someone not giving you what you want.
 
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