"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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psycho!!

unistork

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my "girlfriend" is a PSYCHO!! she said she is coming to my working place on Monday to expose me in front of everybody. I don't tell people at work I have a girlfriend cause frankly I don't consider her one. I use her for money and food because she cheated on me and she accepted me back and I wasn't letting my heart involved. I told her a story from work and I said "my friend.." and she goes "your what? friend?" and she LOST IT. then I started to call her insecure and I told her that he wasn't my friend he's my acquaintence. then I told her that he called her an insecure fat *****. Then she said she is going to call up someone to f#ck her tonight and hung up on me. so now what.

i dont know what to do because how she threatens to expose me. she has nude pictures of me, all this information on me, she basically knows everything about me. It was my fault telling her and revealing so much **** to her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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spider_007

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you deserve it. that's what you get for being a dumb ass.

now sneak in to her house, seal the photos and any other fisical avidence, and then go to work and tell your side of the story FIRST.
 

djbr

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I just can't say anything.

You were trying to use her but at the same time you told her everything about you AND she has pictures of you 100% nude?

Guess who is the one who got used? :(

And putting up with THAT HUGE AMOUNT of crap and trying to say that you were using her for food and money is at least confusing...

Well, good LUCK. That's the only thing that would save you now, I guess. :down:
 

djbr

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Originally posted by spider_007
you deserve it. that's what you get for being a dumb ass.

now sneak in to her house, seal the photos and any other fisical avidence, and then go to work and tell your side of the story FIRST.
Don't tell no story. It's you against her. No proof, no accusation. Just burn all the evidence, if you can, WHILE YOU CAN.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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squirrels

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"Expose" you? Like show nekkid pics of you to people you work with??

Just tell the security people at your job that your girl's gone psycho and tell them to be on the lookout for a crazy b!tch carrying around nekkid photos.

And put a restraining order on her.
 

TylersGotchu

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WTF? Get back at her man, dont take this Sh!t. Dont let her know she has anything on you. "Say hell yeah show my naked pics. The girls will love them! " Dont let a girl get over you man. Woman are devious, and cruel at times. Dont show that she is getting to you, and reverse what shes doing, so it looks like its her fault. Use your imagination.
 
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