"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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psycho!!

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unistork

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my "girlfriend" is a PSYCHO!! she said she is coming to my working place on Monday to expose me in front of everybody. I don't tell people at work I have a girlfriend cause frankly I don't consider her one. I use her for money and food because she cheated on me and she accepted me back and I wasn't letting my heart involved. I told her a story from work and I said "my friend.." and she goes "your what? friend?" and she LOST IT. then I started to call her insecure and I told her that he wasn't my friend he's my acquaintence. then I told her that he called her an insecure fat *****. Then she said she is going to call up someone to f#ck her tonight and hung up on me. so now what.

i dont know what to do because how she threatens to expose me. she has nude pictures of me, all this information on me, she basically knows everything about me. It was my fault telling her and revealing so much **** to her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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you deserve it. that's what you get for being a dumb ass.

now sneak in to her house, seal the photos and any other fisical avidence, and then go to work and tell your side of the story FIRST.
 
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I just can't say anything.

You were trying to use her but at the same time you told her everything about you AND she has pictures of you 100% nude?

Guess who is the one who got used? :(

And putting up with THAT HUGE AMOUNT of crap and trying to say that you were using her for food and money is at least confusing...

Well, good LUCK. That's the only thing that would save you now, I guess. :down:
 
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Originally posted by spider_007
you deserve it. that's what you get for being a dumb ass.

now sneak in to her house, seal the photos and any other fisical avidence, and then go to work and tell your side of the story FIRST.
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Don't tell no story. It's you against her. No proof, no accusation. Just burn all the evidence, if you can, WHILE YOU CAN.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Expose" you? Like show nekkid pics of you to people you work with??

Just tell the security people at your job that your girl's gone psycho and tell them to be on the lookout for a crazy b!tch carrying around nekkid photos.

And put a restraining order on her.
 
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TylersGotchu

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WTF? Get back at her man, dont take this Sh!t. Dont let her know she has anything on you. "Say hell yeah show my naked pics. The girls will love them! " Dont let a girl get over you man. Woman are devious, and cruel at times. Dont show that she is getting to you, and reverse what shes doing, so it looks like its her fault. Use your imagination.
 
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